When Comfort Turns Into Clinginess, And Why It Matters More Than You Think

We all want our dogs to feel safe. We want them to know we’re there for them, that they’re supported, loved, and understood. But what if some of the ways we comfort our dogs are quietly doing the opposite of what we intend?

In this week’s episode of Paws and Pawsitivity, I explore the fine line between emotional support and emotional reliance. This is something I see all the time with puppies, rescue dogs, and dogs struggling with alone time. It often starts with the best intentions, soothing a whine, fussing a worried pup, staying close because it feels kind. Over time though, those moments can teach a dog that discomfort is something they can’t cope with on their own.

We talk about why clinginess isn’t about spoiling or attention seeking, but about learning patterns. I also share simple mindset shifts that help dogs build confidence without ever withdrawing kindness or support.

If you’ve ever worried that stepping back might feel cruel, or wondered why your dog struggles when you’re not right there, this episode will help reframe that guilt into understanding.

🎧 The full episode is available now on YouTube and your usual podcast platforms.
If this resonates, please give it a share. You never know who might need to hear it.


If you’re ready to level up your dog’s training and unlock their full potential, hit that play button and join me for this exciting episode of Paws and Pawsitivity! 🐾

🎧 Listen to the full episode now!


Enjoyed this post?
Don’t just close the tab, help spread the pawsitivity!
👉 Like the post to show your support
👉 Share it with fellow dog lovers
👉 Subscribe so you never miss out on future tips and insights

Your clicks really do count, and every share helps more dogs (and humans) discover the power of kind, ethical training. 🐾


Enrich Your Dog’s Day, Every Day

Before you go, treat your pup to something special. K9 Connectables offers mental stimulation and enrichment that aligns perfectly with a force-free training lifestyle. Because a tired dog isn’t always a happy one – but a fulfilled dog is.

CLICK HERE or on the image below to explore K9 Connectables and enjoy 10% off, thanks to our special partnership with K9 Connectables. Your dog will thank you for it! Or simply use code PTA10 at checkout!

It’s one small change that can make a big difference, starting today.




Discover more from Pawfect Training Academy

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

Discover more from Pawfect Training Academy

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to our newsletter for expert advice, gentle encouragement, and proven, fear-free strategies to help your dog (and you) finally breathe again.


💌 Get weekly expert tips straight to your inbox.

Continue reading